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30 Questions To Ask If You Really Want To Get To Know Someone


Getting to know someone can sometimes be a tedious thing especially when it is the first time you are meeting that person.

Sometimes you met someone and you feel this positive vibe between you guys and it ignites your inner self into wanting to know that person more, but you just don’t know how to ask that person or start a conversation with such a person.

Getting to know people begins with dialogue by asking good questions to get to know someone. You must remember the questions that you ask must flow naturally; you have to let the fellow feel that it is a friendly dialogue between both of you getting to know each other.

You might be denied that relationship if they realize that you are questioning them. Thoughts will start to run through their minds, “why are you asking me these questions?” Is it good or bad? He/she might refuse to reason with you and which can cause relationship casualty.

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I know by now there are lots of questions running through your mind on how to get to know someone and the things to asks to get to know someone. Don’t worry I have got you covered.

 I have collected twenty questions to ask, wait, am going to make it thirty basic and best questions to ask people while getting to know them.

These questions will force them in a friendly way into opening up in sharing their life and friendship with you. 

Personal Questions To Ask To Get To Know Someone

1. What’s the one thing you would like to change about yourself?

2. Do you consider yourself an introvert or an extrovert?

3. What’s your favorite book/movie of all time and why did it speak to you so much?

4. If you are in a bad mood, do you prefer to be left alone or have someone to cheer you up?

5. What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done and would you do it again?

6. Why did your last relationship end?

7. What’s been your biggest mistake so far in life and what did you learn from it?

8. Where is your favorite place in the entire world to go?

9. What are some of your favorite songs?

10. What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done for love?

11. What is one dream you have yet to accomplish?

12. What personal object would hurt you more if you lose?

13. On what topic or topics, you would never make jokes?

14. Do you have an object that would not trade for anything in the world?

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15. How do you know when you love someone?

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Good Questions To Ask To Get To Know Someone

16. What are your top five favorite movies?

17. What’s your favorite hobby to do alone?

18. What person has given you the best advice about your life?

19. If you win 5mil dollars tomorrow, how would you like to spend the rest of your life?

20. Which life would you choose? A rich life or a happy fulfilling life?

21. How do you deal with negative emotions?

22. How did you know you loved me?

23. What’s the first thing you notice about someone when you fall for them?

24. Would you still be able to love someone after they’ve been unfaithful?

25. What do you think is the most important factor of keeping love alive in a relationship?

26. What is the greatest struggle you’ve overcome?

27. If you could change one thing about yourself what would it be?

28. If you love someone, is unfaithfulness/cheating something that can be forgiven?

29. If you had the ability to erase something that you did in the past, what

would it be?

30. Can you pin point the moment in your life where you were the happiest?

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You shouldn’t hesitate in asking friendly questions because that is the way forward in opening the doors to friendship and getting to know someone which will eventually lead to a relationship.

I believe these questions will help you in getting to know people you like and express your feeling to them.

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